I had just download a beautiful book about marriage and I will try to translate it here (it's in spanish) this is the first part:
Fundamentos Islamicos para un matrimonio feliz
is publicated by:http://www.nurelislam.com/& http://www.nurelislam.net/
I. Faith
Because Islam is essentially a way of life, not just a religious practice restricted to a weekly worship, marriage is an important part of the life of every Muslim. The existence of a belief system and values shared by the couple, facilitates communication in a manner that could not be obtained from the marriage between people of different faiths. It is highly recommended that loving relationships are deeply enlightened by Faith
As the Prophet Muhammad (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam): "When the husband gives his wife to eat, you get the reward for this action and Allah Ta'ala increase the bond between them. Thus, when both love each other just to please Allah Ta'ala, what they do really is to increase their faith. "
II.Forgiveness
When the Prophet Muhammad (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) asked his companions: "If they wish that Allah Ta'ala forgive them?" They replied that of course they would like that, he (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) replied: "Then forgive each other."
One of the main factors to have a happy marriage is that spouses are able to forgive, which have no grudges or resentments toward each other. It's natural when you live with someone, situations arise that lead us to say or do things that hurt your wife or husband. The challenge is not to commit such actions, not blame and leave behind the past. To achieve this, we must give up our pride, knowing how to ask forgiveness and also forgive.
If we want to be forgiven by Allah Ta'ala then we must learn to forgive.
Fundamentos Islamicos para un matrimonio feliz
is publicated by:http://www.nurelislam.com/& http://www.nurelislam.net/
I. Faith
Because Islam is essentially a way of life, not just a religious practice restricted to a weekly worship, marriage is an important part of the life of every Muslim. The existence of a belief system and values shared by the couple, facilitates communication in a manner that could not be obtained from the marriage between people of different faiths. It is highly recommended that loving relationships are deeply enlightened by Faith
As the Prophet Muhammad (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam): "When the husband gives his wife to eat, you get the reward for this action and Allah Ta'ala increase the bond between them. Thus, when both love each other just to please Allah Ta'ala, what they do really is to increase their faith. "
II.Forgiveness
When the Prophet Muhammad (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) asked his companions: "If they wish that Allah Ta'ala forgive them?" They replied that of course they would like that, he (sallallaahu 'alaihi wasallam) replied: "Then forgive each other."
One of the main factors to have a happy marriage is that spouses are able to forgive, which have no grudges or resentments toward each other. It's natural when you live with someone, situations arise that lead us to say or do things that hurt your wife or husband. The challenge is not to commit such actions, not blame and leave behind the past. To achieve this, we must give up our pride, knowing how to ask forgiveness and also forgive.
If we want to be forgiven by Allah Ta'ala then we must learn to forgive.
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